"I feel that this has given me the most incredible and wonderful thing that I have ever been given and also the worst. Its a mixed bag. I have been taken to the depths of extreme terror by this, I've had my whole soul undermined by it on the one hand, on the other hand in one sense my experience has been about finding joy." --UNKLE

Life constantly forces you to grow and reevaluate yourself. Sometimes you find yourself completely turned upside down, as if you were tumbling through the surf, lost in a sea of foam. The instant reaction is fear, fear of drowning, being dashed upon the rocks, fear of serious injury and death. But when you stop fighting and realize that you must align yourself with what the universe has in store for you a strange peacefulness washes over you. Before you know it, you find yourself on the shore, ejected from the ocean with a clear picture of the waves in front of you. It is at this point that life forces you to take some time and question whether the break you see in front of you is what you truly want to ride. Perhaps there is a better breaking wave down past the rocks. You have to spend some time on the shore, just breathing, catching your breath and observing what is going on around you. The realization that you are in charge of your decisions, and that ultimately you are own and you will find "your wave" will set your mind at ease. You know which breaks you want to surf, but ultimately you and the universe will decide together which wave is suitable.